Why Did My Parents Hate the Beatles?

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                        ”Cry Baby Cry” Was a “White Album” Classic in 1968 

I’d like to say my parents played “Cry Baby Cry” when I was in the crib, but it’s highly unlikely. My parents, after all, were never Beatles fans.

And, frankly, that kind of annoys me. Even though my dad was just 29 when the “White Album” came out, his musical interests never evolved past the Everly Brothers – his favorite.

I’ve often wondered why he didn’t care for the Fab Four. Was he too old for the Beatles at 29? Did he not like them because they were British? I don’t remember ever hearing my dad listening to anything by a British band. Was he jealous of their lifestyle? beatles.jpg

On the other side, my mom wouldn’t even get into music until disco and the new-look Fleetwood Mac surfaced a few years later. Unlike my dad, she did like British music – especially if it was by Rod Stewart.

I was born two days after the “White Album” came out. It was November 24, 1968, in some hospital in Chicago.

Frankly, I don’t remember much about it.

Years later, I asked my mom if I had been a mistake. And, of course, she said no because mothers don’t say things like, “Yeah – you were a mistake.” But I was 61/2 and 71/2 years younger than my sister and brother, and my dad never seemed to wild about the idea of kids, so I still have my suspicions.

I was born into curious times, though. Both Robert F. Kennedy and Martin Luther King Jr. had been assassinated just months before, and the war in Vietnam was in full force. No one had ever walked on the moon at that point. And while Woodstock hadn’t happened yet, it was still a great time for live music. On my birthday, you could have seen Jimi Hendrix perform in Miami Beach, Janis Joplin in Dallas or the Grateful Dead in Cincinnati. But best of all, the Beatles were still together.

That’s right — the Beatles were still alive when I was born. (In fact, they still had “Abbey Road” and “Let it Be” coming.) And while that may signal that I’m fast becoming a geezer, at least I can cling to that part of musical history.

“Cry Baby Cry” was a sweet song with nursery rhyme-like lyrics that Lennon wrote after the band returned from India. While I don’t remember growing up with this song, I’d “discover” the Beatles years later, after hearing “Twist and Shout” in the movie “Ferris Bueller’s Day Off.” Not long after that movie, I bought the re-released 45 of “Twist and Shout” — my first Beatles purchase.

                                                           

                                               

4 Responses to “Why Did My Parents Hate the Beatles?”

  1. “Cry Baby Cry” is a favorite of mine.

    My parents were Beatles fans — my dad introduced me to the Beatles when I started to get into Def Leppard and he was afraid I’d become a goat sacrificer or something. It worked, though. I became a huge fan.

  2. I like this post. It makes me think about what I heard my parents listening to when I was a kid. I can remember mostly classical, but when my mom was a little sad, it was Barbara Striesand & Johnny Mathis. Also she listened to those two when we lived abroad more than any other time. So now I’m thinking, did those two singers make her feel more close to home? I wonder how much what our parents listened to made us who we are today?

    The Beatles, it really is perfect for babies when you think about it. And I mean that in the best possible way. This really makes me want to break out the Beatles albums for my kids, really. I haven’t played them in a long time.

  3. It kinda makes you wonder if there will ever again be a musical group that could alter the cultural landscape like the Fab Four.

  4. Many people in the 60’s were very offended when John said in an interview with Time that the Beatles were more popular than God.

    Here’s a quote, ” Journalist Maureen Cleave of the London Evening Standard and a friend of the Beatles, asks John Lennon about his thoughts on God and the Church and John comes up with: “Christianity will go. It will vanish and shrink. I needn’t argue about that; I’m right and I will be proved right. We’re more popular than Jesus now; I don’t know which will go first - rock’n'roll or Christianity. Jesus was alright, but his disciples were thick and ordinary. It’s them twisting it that ruins it for me.”
    World reaction is swift. Radio stations in the Netherlands and in Spain ban the playing of Beatle records. So does the South African Broadcasting Corporation, stating that “The Beatles’ arrogance has passed the ultimate limit of decency. It is clowning no longer.” Even the Vatican issues an opinion, but allows that Lennon’s remarks were made “off-handedly and not impiously”. http://www.beatles.ws/1966.htm

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